What’s Really Going on Between Barack and Michelle Obama?
Lately, there’s been a lot of talk swirling around about the state of Barack and Michelle Obama’s marriage. Some fans are even wondering: are the former President and First Lady heading for a divorce?
The rumors kicked into high gear when it was reported that Michelle Obama would not be attending Donald Trump’s 2025 inauguration alongside her husband. According to a statement from the Obamas’ office, Barack confirmed he would attend the 60th Inaugural Ceremonies, but Michelle would not be present.
Her decision not to attend, especially alongside other notable absences—like skipping President Jimmy Carter’s funeral—has sparked speculation. But there’s more to the story.
Michelle recently addressed the rumors head-on. In an interview on Jay Shetty’s popular podcast On Purpose, she opened up about going to therapy as she navigates a new chapter in her life—adjusting to life as an empty nester and focusing on her personal well-being. She emphasized that her absence from public events has nothing to do with marital issues but rather a desire to prioritize self-care.
There’s also historical context behind her choice not to attend Trump’s inauguration. Michelle has long been vocal about her criticism of Donald Trump, especially over his role in spreading the “birther” conspiracy theory, which falsely claimed Barack Obama wasn’t born in the U.S. She has said this rhetoric put her family in danger—making it clear why she’d rather sit this one out.
Despite the buzz, Barack and Michelle have continued to show each other love and support publicly. On Michelle’s birthday in January 2025, Barack posted a heartfelt tribute, calling her “the love of my life.” Michelle responded with affection, putting to rest any talk of a rift.
Bottom line: Michelle’s absence at certain events is about her own healing and boundaries—not about trouble in paradise. The Obamas remain strong, and their relationship still stands as one of the most admired partnerships in public life.
